My Plan to Stop Divorce and End the Marriage Crisis in our Country

One of the most destructive thoughts you can have is that marriage problems are just a natural part of marriage. Our country can literally stop divorce in its tracks if we eradicate this devilish notion brought upon us by pseudo healers known as psychologists.

For obvious reasons, family therapists who claim to specialize in helping married couples do not advertise the fact that their success rate in helping troubled marriages is below 10%. Could you imagine bringing your car to an auto repair shop that had a success rate of 10%?

What has given them power and authority has nothing to do with ability. In the state of California for instance, clinical psychologists who report to the family law courts have absolute legal protection. They literally have more protection than judges because a judge can be 'checked' through the appeals process, but a psychologist has no one scrutinizing their work. The old saying that absolute power absolutely corrupts is absolutely proven by numerous examples of abuse in the state of California.

My mission is to end the marriage crisis in our country for the sake of our children.

Step 1: Show you how to stop divorce and resolve your own marriage problems

Those who believe that marriage problems are a necessary part of a marriage are gravely mistaken and end up undermining their own future marital successes by establishing a subconscious, negative expectation in their minds.

Like anything else, when marriage is understood, a couple is able to work within its guiding structures. There is no need for grandiose explanations of simple principles; anyone can understand marriage.

When a couple understands the definition of marriage and how it is intended to be constructed, and when a couple understands attitudes and behaviors that work with, instead of against those principles, the assurance of a happy marriage is written in stone. Couples who are suffering with marriage problems must be educated to the simplicity and ease with which they can have a joyous marriage.

Step 2: Teach individuals how to find their soul mate

I am writing a third book that educates young people who wish to find their life's mate by using spiritually scientific methods. It is critically important to properly use one's discrimination to avoid potentially dangerous unions.

Step 3: Create a network of specially trained mediators who offer a viable alternative to divorce

I am laying the foundation for a mediation school that will offer the best alternative to the family court system. The family court system polarizes families that are already suffering and it invariably aggravates the pain and sorrow associated with a breaking family. My specially trained mediators will offer their clients a viable and attractive offer to stay together by teaching the fundamental principles of marriage through coaching receptive couples toward a joyous family experience.

Even if our success rate is only 20% (and the rest go on to a divorce) we will have accomplished much. And for those who must divorce, we will help remove the obstacles of anger and disappointment that prevent future friendship and harmony. Couples who part as friends instead of enemies can more quickly adapt to the traumas of divorce that lie in front of them.

Step 4: Infuse our nation's school system with a "how to live" curriculum

The current emphasis in our schools is focused on teaching children how to become part of a machine called the economy, rather than how to become part of a living entity called our community.

The foundation of almost all crises in our country is the marriage crisis of our broken families. Only through intensity of purpose can we change the current course that our nation is running. We cannot leave our destinies up to political leaders. We all must do everything that we can as individuals and as families to revitalize our nation by making the family the natural unit of measure again.